A child's self-esteem will suffer if he or she is not appreciated. Children know if you are sincere or not. Show appreciation at all times. Tell your child you love him or her - this is appreciation. Thanking a child when he does something good is reward enough. Children like to please. Esteem is boosted with your encouragement. Encourage decision-making, this will lead to a feeling of confidence and independence.
A child’s self-esteem will be higher if you treat him or her seriously and with respect. Explain everything to a child and treat them as an intelligent individual able to understand and reach conclusions. You want to be treated like this and children are no different. A child who is belittled, patronized or put down will suffer lack of confidence. Mutual respect will foster trust and confidence.
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