hi tyra its me again i still really need your help, the problem with me is that i have these huge scars all over my body and it is always so painful to see young black south african women like who have these beautiful spotless legs , backs, armsand chests i have really tried everything they say it works as long as it something i can afford but nothing is working this is becoming a huge problem especially when it comes to my self esteem i dont feel free to go out to parties because then i will be forced to wear something that will cover my body so people cant see my scars , tyra please please help you are my last resort i dont know what you can do for me but i am sure that you can do something to help ,be it to deal with it and accept that it is my fate or coz i am just not or to help me get rid of them i dont know i just really need your help i hope to God that you will reply

HI RACHEL..I AM SORRY THAT THIS HAPPEN TO YOU...BUT I DO QUESTION WHY YOU ARE DATING ON LINE AND NOT REALIZING THAT NINE TIME OUT OF TEN YOU MAY MEET A JERK...WHEN YOU MEET THEM IN PERSON.START A JERK JOURNAL AND ADD HIM ON IT.YOU CAN LOOK AT THE JOURNAL EVERY NOW AND THEN AND COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS THAT THIS PERSON IS NOT PERMANENTLY IN YOU LIFE. THIS JOURNAL WILL ALSO GIVE YOU AND YOUR FRIEND A GOOD LAUGH SOMEDAY..IT COULD ALSO BE A GOOD BOOK TO SHOW OUR CHILDREN FEMALE OR MALES.. IT MAY HELP THEM LATER IN LIFE.. FROM ANOTHER RACHEL

HI RACHEL..I AM SORRY THAT THIS HAPPEN TO YOU...BUT I DO QUESTION WHY YOU ARE DATING ON LINE AND NOT REALIZING THAT NINE TIME OUT OF TEN YOU MAY MEET A JERK...WHEN YOU MEET THEM IN PERSON.START A JERK JOURNAL AND ADD HIM ON IT.YOU CAN LOOK AT THE JOURNAL EVERY NOW AND THEN AND COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS THAT THIS PERSON IS NOT PERMANENTLY IN YOU LIFE. THIS JOURNAL WILL ALSO GIVE YOU AND YOUR FRIEND A GOOD LAUGH SOMEDAY..IT COULD ALSO BE A GOOD BOOK TO SHOW OUR CHILDREN FEMALE OR MALES.. IT MAY HELP THEM LATER IN LIFE.. FROM ANOTHER RACHEL

OMG!! what a jerk...don't give him a dime.

I am a virgin of 46 years.Thre is a special reason why i am still a virgin.I want to break it now.I am too shy to do this.I want your advice on this.

He's lame for getting sloshed, not for takeing you up on YOUR offer to split it.

You should've said was "Next one's on me," or "If we were somewhere cheaper I'd split it." If you really didn't mean you'd split it, you shouldn't have said so.

I would've called you on it too. It's a test to see if you're the kind of person who just says things to seem polite, or if you're actually sincere.

Cover your side...don't split it down the middle, but only because you offered. It'll blow his mind when he gets that check.

Wow. What a cheapo...don't pay him!! and don't go on a second date!