Matt Titus explains what a lady should and shouldn’t do if she’s looking for a serious relationship.
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HI Tyra
I am in a very bad relationship my boyfriend cheat on me for 6 years and he already make 2 childerens while he is with me. i want to leaf te relationship but he dont leaf alone please help. I have kid and i dont want her to grow uo like that. He treat me like bad and fight and not nice thing in front of my kid and it hurt me. help me to come out of this. i pray that god he much help and i believe he will because i will not give a men like hom. He knows i dont deserve it.
Posted by:
Trudy | September 12, 2008 1:01 AM
Hey TYRA!
Iam only 17 but i have been dating this boy for a year now weve had sex and evrything. I dont regret it but lately i feel like hes been sleeping arond on me and i dont know how to teel him i wana use condoms because ive allready been pregant and im scared hes goin to bring me somethin back wat should i do?
LOVE,
LOST N LOVE
Posted by:
Joy | September 10, 2008 8:14 AM
hi tyra i luv ur shows n luv ur syle n personality.you rock
Posted by:
suzzy | September 3, 2008 6:48 AM
with due respect what is the point having people beg for info on this page and they not getting the info from you
Posted by:
gina | September 2, 2008 12:55 AM
hey Tyra,
My name is Angel. I dated this guy named Kenny for about 2 years. I fell head over heels for this guy. He was my first kiss and my first love. But before i knew it he came up to me and told me that he cheated on me with 3 other women. im 15 now and this was about a year ago. Now he has a girlfriend named britney and they have a 4 month old daughter named Madison. I moved away from Kenny so i could forget all about him. when i moved into my new place there Kenny was. He lived right across the street from me. Now every morning when i wake up i see him outside his house with his little daughter and his 15 year old girlfriend. Please help me Tyra. I dont know what to do.
Love,
Angel
Posted by:
Angel | August 30, 2008 9:38 AM
Haai
Congratulations tyra on a nice show. Plz come to South Africa and do a show here and possibly sponsor bursaries to young woman who want to go for it. One ohter thing is talk about bipolar on your show and all the other mental illnesses. I have borderline personality disorder and it would be great for other people to feel like they are not in it alone, you know, the world of mental illnesses.
Posted by:
Lu | August 1, 2008 3:54 AM
can you send me Mark's five tips, loving your shop kip on rising.
Posted by:
Mavis | July 31, 2008 7:20 AM
hey tyra please post the 5 tips of mr. titus unable to open from all the way in south africa. mwah
Posted by:
rushda | July 1, 2008 4:39 AM
Please email Mark's 5 tips. Couldn't open the video. Thank you.
Posted by:
Shuanna | May 27, 2008 12:46 PM
I can't get audio on Mark's 5 tips to get a man - please list the 5 tips so I can read them.
Thanks,
Sarah
Posted by:
sarah | May 9, 2008 3:46 PM
I REALLY DO LUV UR SHOW.BUT I NEED UR HELP I NEED A GUY BADLY 4 GOOD
IN A SHORT TIME I WENT A GOOD GUY
Posted by:
LYZA | May 1, 2008 2:41 PM
HI
TYRA.IREALLY DO LOVE UR SHOW BUT U NO WHAT I NEED U TO PLEASE HELP ME GET A MAN OF MY LIKE THAT WILL MARRY ME IN TWO WEEKS PLEASE THANKS I DONT VE A BOY BOYFRINED
Posted by:
sweet louiza | May 1, 2008 2:36 PM
Tyra, just started watching your show and fell in love with it. It's realistic, and with the insider to men its helped alot, but one type of man that wasnt covered was the Military lifestyle. But still good tips to know!
Posted by:
Cat | May 1, 2008 6:33 AM
please email 5 tips on how to get a man, could NOT open
thanks
Posted by:
sara | May 1, 2008 6:09 AM
Hey Tyra.
Well, Im young.. Still in middle school. But I've been feeling these sexual urges. Even with my boyfriend. When we kiss, I want to go further. If we're making out, I want to go further. I know he does and we've talked about it. He's ready to go for it whenever I am. I told him I WANT to but I can't seem to allow myself to go that far. But it's hard... Avoiding these urges. I know every girl has them. I've even talked to some of my friends about it. They all feel it but they haven't talked about it or gone as far as I have with their boyfriends.
I don't know what to do. I don't just want a physical relationship. But I want.. More.
Posted by:
JustAGirl | April 30, 2008 6:20 PM
Hi tyra.id like to cangratulate you u have a magnificus show.i like wathing it.well im from nicaragua im 18 .ill like you to give me a hand i always like boys and boys always show me that they have interest in me.but they never ask me to start a relation .im tired of being lonely all my friends have they boyfriends and im eighteen and never have one .im always inventing that i got a boyfriend not to feel bad among them.i dont want to end up alone the hole rest of my life.please send me some tips to my email.i need your help.this black girl need a black boy.i know you can help me.this nicaraguan black girl always watche your show.love JAH-BLESS you and your workers.thank you
Posted by:
nem | April 30, 2008 4:43 PM
Dear Tyra,
I have appreciate the show that lets us women roll into the minds of men. It has been interesting hearing Matt Titus' 5 tips but I do have a pickle. I have become friends with Lucas* for a year and instantly thought he was attractive. In recent months I have been unable to get him off my mind! We usually hang out with friends and have great chemistry as friends it seems like we have known each other for years. Last week he confessed he had a crush on one of my friends, "still" loves his ex and likes this girl he has been attractive to for years. Right off the bat he sounded confused I only believe he crushes my friend because he actually think she likes him and I dont believe he still is in love with his ex that broke his heart, I do think he likes the girl whom he has wanted to get with for years. Now my dilema is when we hang out I feel something when he looks at me and its like he's trying not to like me. He looks at me with this.. I dont know how to explain it but I feel he looks at me as I look at him (I look at him and I smile inside). I know he is confused and I will try not to think of him like anything more than friends but that will be very hard considering Im good friends with his sister and we have a couple of trips coming up. Is there anything that I can do to help him realize that he is confused and help get through that and foremost see if it will be worth continuing being friends with him and maybe grow into something more in later months/years?
Thank You Very Much
Posted by:
Harlow | April 30, 2008 4:11 PM
hey tyra loved the show. can u plz send the 5 tips to get a man. thanks ur show great.
Posted by:
tricia | April 30, 2008 4:05 PM
Tyra can you please e-mail me the 5 tips.I was unable to retrived the video. Thank-you. Lynnette
Posted by:
Lynnette | April 30, 2008 2:59 PM
hi tyra i love your show i watch it everyday with my girlfriends but one of my freinds has a problem she REALLY likes this guy but he doesnt like her shes always trying to get him to notice her but...:S shes always cryin over him but hes always soooo mean and ignoring her like he'll be normal with any other girl but with her he'll be...weird keep in mind he knows she likes him so...? whenever shell try to talk to him he;ll be like whatever and when he'll talk to another girl hell seem really interested in what there saying i dont know shes asked him outt ALOT of times but he ALWAYS says NO!!!!i guess he says no because she never really goes up shell tell me to go ask him or she;ll e-mail him ...i dont know!!! what should she do??? and im telling you shes just not going to give up she NEEDS him no wait she HAS tO HAVE HIM!!!PLZZZ HELP HER p.s
Posted by:
sarah | April 30, 2008 2:34 PM
Hey Girl!
So...I met this amazing guy on a snowboarding trip, we hooked up during the trip, then when we got back I “accidentally” ran into him and he ended up telling me that he was moving away for a year for work, but is coming back, so before he left we ended up hanging out a lot (I don’t know if it was out of pity?) we kept in touch through text messaging and he drunk called me a couple times. I saw him when he came down on Easter we hangout and hooked up again. When he sees me he acts as if I’m his girl and I do respond the same way. But I don’t know what is going on exactly? What does he think that I’m going to wait until he gets back? Because right now that’s what it feels like I’m doing. I am seeing other people, but I can’t get him out of my head because the time we spent together, before he left which was about only a week was awesome. Was it just me that think it was good? Or does he think so to?
One incident occurred that has me rattled, some girl he works with called me from his cell phone and asked to talk to me just small talk like what I do, where I’m from, and was clearly drunk but what is up with that? He said she took the phone from him and called me but why in the world would she call me? Does she read my text messages? Was she asking me to step down?
I wish I could talk to him on a different level not just to hanging out and hooking up whenever he comes down, he has invited me to go up and visit him several times during his drunken phone calls, so I don’t know what to make of it? Should I even go up there to visit him?
I hope you can help me understand my situation
With Love Gosia
Posted by:
Gosia | April 30, 2008 2:34 PM
Hi Tyra...
I was reading the posts and i decided to post too....
1- im 21 and i have never being on a date nor had a boyfriend.
2- guys dont approach me at all, although i've been told im beautiful
3- There is this guy that i really like and he seems to like me too but he is in a relationship... but i really like him !
so what should i do? or what you think?
thanks ... xoxo
Posted by:
jhanel | April 30, 2008 2:21 PM
Hello Tyra,
I watch your show on occasion because you confront problems I'm always worrying about but no one ever bothers to bring up.
My twin sister is in love with you,she has inspiration photos all over and is always singing your praises.
I hada question that it seems plenty of girls thought Matt Titus could answer.
I have been in love with the same boy for nearly 2 years.We were both very shy to begin with but we went out of our way to see each other and told one another we were in love.We however never dated.
One night while we were out having dinner this drunk girl approached us and introduced herself.He chose to spend the rest of the evening with her.He eventually left her after breaking my heart and apologized but for some reason hes gone and gotten another girlfriend now.
I think I should give up on him but for some reason I just cant.
Is there any way to win him back.
PS.We are very close friends again now but I have no idea how to make it more than that.
Posted by:
Amelia | April 30, 2008 2:15 PM
Hi Tyra!!! :) :) im a huge fan!! umm i need ur advice..i kno im young cuz im still in high school but still please help..okay i rly like this guy n he likes me but he doesnt want to go out cuz summer is coming up already n we wouldnt be able to see each other that much. wat am i suppose to do?? is there some way i should change his mind?? or should i just settle for being friends(which i dont want to do!)? PLEASE give me tips so i can change his mind!!!
Posted by:
jessica | April 30, 2008 2:14 PM
Ok i have a question. I really like this guy and we have been sleeping together for almost 9 months but he wont commit and acts like he cares about me and we act like we're in a relationship...but he sleeps around and lies to me about it like he's guilty or just doesnt want to get caught...i am currently pregnant with his child and i am major attached to him but i dont know how to get him to want a relationship with me expecially now that there is a baby on the way..what do i do?
Comments
HI Tyra
I am in a very bad relationship my boyfriend cheat on me for 6 years and he already make 2 childerens while he is with me. i want to leaf te relationship but he dont leaf alone please help. I have kid and i dont want her to grow uo like that. He treat me like bad and fight and not nice thing in front of my kid and it hurt me. help me to come out of this. i pray that god he much help and i believe he will because i will not give a men like hom. He knows i dont deserve it.
Posted by: Trudy | September 12, 2008 1:01 AM
Hey TYRA!
Iam only 17 but i have been dating this boy for a year now weve had sex and evrything. I dont regret it but lately i feel like hes been sleeping arond on me and i dont know how to teel him i wana use condoms because ive allready been pregant and im scared hes goin to bring me somethin back wat should i do?
LOVE,
LOST N LOVE
Posted by: Joy | September 10, 2008 8:14 AM
hi tyra i luv ur shows n luv ur syle n personality.you rock
Posted by: suzzy | September 3, 2008 6:48 AM
with due respect what is the point having people beg for info on this page and they not getting the info from you
Posted by: gina | September 2, 2008 12:55 AM
hey Tyra,
My name is Angel. I dated this guy named Kenny for about 2 years. I fell head over heels for this guy. He was my first kiss and my first love. But before i knew it he came up to me and told me that he cheated on me with 3 other women. im 15 now and this was about a year ago. Now he has a girlfriend named britney and they have a 4 month old daughter named Madison. I moved away from Kenny so i could forget all about him. when i moved into my new place there Kenny was. He lived right across the street from me. Now every morning when i wake up i see him outside his house with his little daughter and his 15 year old girlfriend. Please help me Tyra. I dont know what to do.
Love,
Angel
Posted by: Angel | August 30, 2008 9:38 AM
Haai
Congratulations tyra on a nice show. Plz come to South Africa and do a show here and possibly sponsor bursaries to young woman who want to go for it. One ohter thing is talk about bipolar on your show and all the other mental illnesses. I have borderline personality disorder and it would be great for other people to feel like they are not in it alone, you know, the world of mental illnesses.
Posted by: Lu | August 1, 2008 3:54 AM
can you send me Mark's five tips, loving your shop kip on rising.
Posted by: Mavis | July 31, 2008 7:20 AM
hey tyra please post the 5 tips of mr. titus unable to open from all the way in south africa. mwah
Posted by: rushda | July 1, 2008 4:39 AM
Please email Mark's 5 tips. Couldn't open the video. Thank you.
Posted by: Shuanna | May 27, 2008 12:46 PM
I can't get audio on Mark's 5 tips to get a man - please list the 5 tips so I can read them.
Thanks,
Sarah
Posted by: sarah | May 9, 2008 3:46 PM
I REALLY DO LUV UR SHOW.BUT I NEED UR HELP I NEED A GUY BADLY 4 GOOD
IN A SHORT TIME I WENT A GOOD GUY
Posted by: LYZA | May 1, 2008 2:41 PM
HI
TYRA.IREALLY DO LOVE UR SHOW BUT U NO WHAT I NEED U TO PLEASE HELP ME GET A MAN OF MY LIKE THAT WILL MARRY ME IN TWO WEEKS PLEASE THANKS I DONT VE A BOY BOYFRINED
Posted by: sweet louiza | May 1, 2008 2:36 PM
Tyra, just started watching your show and fell in love with it. It's realistic, and with the insider to men its helped alot, but one type of man that wasnt covered was the Military lifestyle. But still good tips to know!
Posted by: Cat | May 1, 2008 6:33 AM
please email 5 tips on how to get a man, could NOT open
thanks
Posted by: sara | May 1, 2008 6:09 AM
Hey Tyra.
Well, Im young.. Still in middle school. But I've been feeling these sexual urges. Even with my boyfriend. When we kiss, I want to go further. If we're making out, I want to go further. I know he does and we've talked about it. He's ready to go for it whenever I am. I told him I WANT to but I can't seem to allow myself to go that far. But it's hard... Avoiding these urges. I know every girl has them. I've even talked to some of my friends about it. They all feel it but they haven't talked about it or gone as far as I have with their boyfriends.
I don't know what to do. I don't just want a physical relationship. But I want.. More.
Posted by: JustAGirl | April 30, 2008 6:20 PM
Hi tyra.id like to cangratulate you u have a magnificus show.i like wathing it.well im from nicaragua im 18 .ill like you to give me a hand i always like boys and boys always show me that they have interest in me.but they never ask me to start a relation .im tired of being lonely all my friends have they boyfriends and im eighteen and never have one .im always inventing that i got a boyfriend not to feel bad among them.i dont want to end up alone the hole rest of my life.please send me some tips to my email.i need your help.this black girl need a black boy.i know you can help me.this nicaraguan black girl always watche your show.love JAH-BLESS you and your workers.thank you
Posted by: nem | April 30, 2008 4:43 PM
Dear Tyra,
I have appreciate the show that lets us women roll into the minds of men. It has been interesting hearing Matt Titus' 5 tips but I do have a pickle. I have become friends with Lucas* for a year and instantly thought he was attractive. In recent months I have been unable to get him off my mind! We usually hang out with friends and have great chemistry as friends it seems like we have known each other for years. Last week he confessed he had a crush on one of my friends, "still" loves his ex and likes this girl he has been attractive to for years. Right off the bat he sounded confused I only believe he crushes my friend because he actually think she likes him and I dont believe he still is in love with his ex that broke his heart, I do think he likes the girl whom he has wanted to get with for years. Now my dilema is when we hang out I feel something when he looks at me and its like he's trying not to like me. He looks at me with this.. I dont know how to explain it but I feel he looks at me as I look at him (I look at him and I smile inside). I know he is confused and I will try not to think of him like anything more than friends but that will be very hard considering Im good friends with his sister and we have a couple of trips coming up. Is there anything that I can do to help him realize that he is confused and help get through that and foremost see if it will be worth continuing being friends with him and maybe grow into something more in later months/years?
Thank You Very Much
Posted by: Harlow | April 30, 2008 4:11 PM
hey tyra loved the show. can u plz send the 5 tips to get a man. thanks ur show great.
Posted by: tricia | April 30, 2008 4:05 PM
Tyra can you please e-mail me the 5 tips.I was unable to retrived the video. Thank-you. Lynnette
Posted by: Lynnette | April 30, 2008 2:59 PM
hi tyra i love your show i watch it everyday with my girlfriends but one of my freinds has a problem she REALLY likes this guy but he doesnt like her shes always trying to get him to notice her but...:S shes always cryin over him but hes always soooo mean and ignoring her like he'll be normal with any other girl but with her he'll be...weird keep in mind he knows she likes him so...? whenever shell try to talk to him he;ll be like whatever and when he'll talk to another girl hell seem really interested in what there saying i dont know shes asked him outt ALOT of times but he ALWAYS says NO!!!!i guess he says no because she never really goes up shell tell me to go ask him or she;ll e-mail him ...i dont know!!! what should she do??? and im telling you shes just not going to give up she NEEDS him no wait she HAS tO HAVE HIM!!!PLZZZ HELP HER p.s
Posted by: sarah | April 30, 2008 2:34 PM
Hey Girl!
So...I met this amazing guy on a snowboarding trip, we hooked up during the trip, then when we got back I “accidentally” ran into him and he ended up telling me that he was moving away for a year for work, but is coming back, so before he left we ended up hanging out a lot (I don’t know if it was out of pity?) we kept in touch through text messaging and he drunk called me a couple times. I saw him when he came down on Easter we hangout and hooked up again. When he sees me he acts as if I’m his girl and I do respond the same way. But I don’t know what is going on exactly? What does he think that I’m going to wait until he gets back? Because right now that’s what it feels like I’m doing. I am seeing other people, but I can’t get him out of my head because the time we spent together, before he left which was about only a week was awesome. Was it just me that think it was good? Or does he think so to?
One incident occurred that has me rattled, some girl he works with called me from his cell phone and asked to talk to me just small talk like what I do, where I’m from, and was clearly drunk but what is up with that? He said she took the phone from him and called me but why in the world would she call me? Does she read my text messages? Was she asking me to step down?
I wish I could talk to him on a different level not just to hanging out and hooking up whenever he comes down, he has invited me to go up and visit him several times during his drunken phone calls, so I don’t know what to make of it? Should I even go up there to visit him?
I hope you can help me understand my situation
With Love Gosia
Posted by: Gosia | April 30, 2008 2:34 PM
Hi Tyra...
I was reading the posts and i decided to post too....
1- im 21 and i have never being on a date nor had a boyfriend.
2- guys dont approach me at all, although i've been told im beautiful
3- There is this guy that i really like and he seems to like me too but he is in a relationship... but i really like him !
so what should i do? or what you think?
thanks ... xoxo
Posted by: jhanel | April 30, 2008 2:21 PM
Hello Tyra,
I watch your show on occasion because you confront problems I'm always worrying about but no one ever bothers to bring up.
My twin sister is in love with you,she has inspiration photos all over and is always singing your praises.
I hada question that it seems plenty of girls thought Matt Titus could answer.
I have been in love with the same boy for nearly 2 years.We were both very shy to begin with but we went out of our way to see each other and told one another we were in love.We however never dated.
One night while we were out having dinner this drunk girl approached us and introduced herself.He chose to spend the rest of the evening with her.He eventually left her after breaking my heart and apologized but for some reason hes gone and gotten another girlfriend now.
I think I should give up on him but for some reason I just cant.
Is there any way to win him back.
PS.We are very close friends again now but I have no idea how to make it more than that.
Posted by: Amelia | April 30, 2008 2:15 PM
Hi Tyra!!! :) :) im a huge fan!! umm i need ur advice..i kno im young cuz im still in high school but still please help..okay i rly like this guy n he likes me but he doesnt want to go out cuz summer is coming up already n we wouldnt be able to see each other that much. wat am i suppose to do?? is there some way i should change his mind?? or should i just settle for being friends(which i dont want to do!)? PLEASE give me tips so i can change his mind!!!
Posted by: jessica | April 30, 2008 2:14 PM
Ok i have a question. I really like this guy and we have been sleeping together for almost 9 months but he wont commit and acts like he cares about me and we act like we're in a relationship...but he sleeps around and lies to me about it like he's guilty or just doesnt want to get caught...i am currently pregnant with his child and i am major attached to him but i dont know how to get him to want a relationship with me expecially now that there is a baby on the way..what do i do?
Posted by: Caley | April 30, 2008 2:07 PM