My boyfriend is emotionally cheating on me. His ex is everything to him. He hasn't been with her for years but he still loves her. Like not too long ago I found a picture of them together happy smiling in a video game box here in OUR apartment! He swears it was just in a jacket that he brought from his dads. But since we have been together he's worn that jacket. We have a 9 month old daughter and another daughter due in Feb on v-day. I am so insecure I catch myself looking at his myspace and going to her page and looking at her pictures. I check his emails and facebook even at times. He swears he doesn't still have feelings about her. But we've actually talked about if he could have any girl in the world who it would be...and its her. He's explained to me how cute she is. his words were oh shes just so cute like omg. UGH! Ever since I found the picture he doesn't talk about her but I constantly bring her up and I can't stop. I feel like I'm fat and ugly and like he doesn't really wanna be with me that he is only with me cuz he can't have her. I think with time it'll get better though. It has to.

Emotionally cheating is just as bad as physically cheating. The relationship is harder to cut off when emotions are involved. I found myself emotionally cheating on my boyfriend. No it was not intentionally. The phone calls with the other guy began to pick up and e-mails back an forth became consistent and I found myself liking the guy. However, forgiveness is possible in any relationship if both parties take responsibility and be honest. Because this happened, my boyfriend and I were able to work through our issues and he forgave me.

This past monday my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years called me and tells me that he's met someone else and he's falling for her. I was shocked b/c he was just talking about marriage to me. I was shocked b/c I never saw it coming. For me I could forgive him if he'd kissed someone or had something physical with someone. We all have our weak moments and get caught in the moment. But emotionally cheating on someone is something that I don't think should be forgiven. It isn't random so it's like he intentionally hurt you.

My finacee has been spending alot of time with a woman from work. He talks to her about things we never talk about. I have to hear what a "good girl" she is. He takes her to lunch and out to business dinners. He doesn't consider it cheating, but I do. The girl knows of his involvement with me (and my son) and yet she won't back off. She is aas much to blame as he is.

I definately think it is. A relationship bond begins from the emotions. A lady thinks more with the heart on the other hand a man more with the mind...