tyra my names jessica im young but i have been engaged for 7 monthes not and found out today that my fiancee has cheated our whole relationship. i mean i have found hints like pictures and texts but to i was on the comp. and a girl imed and i looked at the covo history and there it was them talking about how they had sex and how he wants her explaining he drives by her house all the time. he has no i dea i know and i dont know how to bring it up because in the past he got very aggresive and angry and denied everything. please help me i dont want to get hurt in the long run!!!
sincerly jessica

hey tyra. my name keisha. i'm 19 with a two month old son, i'm married to a military man for 3years. the year 2007 had been rough for me. my daughter had died in january.and i found pregnant and had my son in october. in december i found out my husband was messing around with another girl. i was on my laptop checking my myspace and i went to view my history and i seen a pic of him and this girl hugging. i confront him and was ready to leave him. he pushed me and held me down saying he didn't wanted me to leave and kept telling me he love me and i ask him if you love why why would you go do something stupid like that. So he explain to me that it was one night we had got into a argument about divorce and he left and when over his friend out and she was over their and he told her that he was married with a child and she told him that she had a boyfriend. they exchanged numbers. he said that he was flirting with her but didn't have sexual contact with her. he said she tried call a couple of time and he told her not to call no more. tyra, i don't believe him because he lies alot. it's hard because i've lost my trust for him. and it hard for me to figure out if i should give him a 2nd chance. how do i know the next time if we aruge and for him to do the samething again. i've been faithful for all these years and i need some help on weather i should stay or if i should go? PLEASE CALL OR EMAIL ASAP

Hello Tyra I love your show, and I am so happy that your young black and successfuly. I am going to try to make this short. I am 27 with two children,unmarried I was giving a ring, but the night he gave me the ring it never fit my finger, and he never went back to get my side. I feel so stressed out sometimes I just keep everything inside. #1 I have to sick parents. #2 I have two chidren and I am unmarried. #3 My boyfriend thinks that I am the meaness person in the world. # We live with our parents. #4 I work full time and I dont spend enought time with my kids or my boyfriend. #5 I always take the kids to his parents house. #6 He never comes and pick the children up to take them any where. #7 I always have to tell him what the children need he dont really come out and and ask. #8 He never takes me out any more because he says I always get upset. And he talks nasty to somethimes. I want our relationship to work, and I just want to be with someone that I am going to spend the rest of my life with. Is a person you would say is cheating.

Hi,Tyra! your show is such a inspiration to alot of weman and young adult females incuding my self, and first off i want to start by saying thank you for being concern about whats going on with our weman today! Also i want to talk to you about some problems im having.I am 19 years old, I drop out of school in the 10th grade,and not to menchin I have seven sisters and brothers that i have to look up to me.I am already living the life of an full grown adult with big responsibilties.First off last year i moved in a three bed room house with my boyfriend that I'v been with for two and half years and i lost my job a couple of months ago and now im having relationship problem on top of alot of other things such as no money, no job, and no educaton.Also the house that i live in is in pretty bad condition. What im really trying to say is im a very confuse girl that is very depressed all the time and dont have any help because my mom is also sruggling with seven kids and no income.And my boyfriend on the other hand i love him and he loves me but i just caught him cheating in our home. So tyra if you have any helpful solutions on how i can have a better and normal life please let me know. Thank you and god bless!!!

I can't really say anything about women don't on there men well for me i was in a 5 year relationship wit my boyfriend and after i had my baby he started acting funny i wanted to think that he was cheating on me with a nother girl.But than there was thing when his phone ring does he pick up around you no... he wait until he leaves to call that person back so i did my thing and i caught him big time and after that i cheated on him thatn realized that it wasn't healthy for my baby so we worked things out and we been good eversince than. The things he use to they've stopped and thats a really good thing.

this show spoke to me tyra! last year my situation panned out like this:MY BOYFRIEND STARTED WORKING LATE 4/5 DAYS A WEEK. this was sign number one.SUDDENLY WE WERENT HAVING SEX, SOMETIMES FOR WEEKS.then, HE TOLD ME HE NEEDED SPACE AND THAT WE SHOULD TAKE A BREAK. we got back together 3 weeks later and things got worse. I STARTED GETTING THE HANG UP PHONE CALLS AND THERE WERE A SUBSTANTIAL AMOUNT OF TEXT MESSAGES BETWEEN HIM AND ANOTHER GIRL, BACK to BACK. turns out he was cheating on me with a co worker. I called her to let her know what was going on and to warn her about his lying a$$, she hung up on me.now he's done it to HER.

lie and stick to it. And when I say stick to it they take it to the grave with them, mine has went as far as swearing to god only to try and make me doubt myself enough to question myself, because when some swears to god you must rethink what you know or saw. I've been in a marriage for 18yrs to a woman who I found out about 6 years ago has lied to me from the 1st day we meet. Oh BTW...I took your test, I replace man with woman in your test and scored a 9...do you really think she's cheating? Just kidding! The funny thing is that I still hope a) it's not true or B) she would be honest with me. I don't think I'm going to get the answer to either of those questions even though it will eat at me for my entire life make me feel miserable. So yeah I think that your show was one-sided based on corrupt information and never mentioned us men who share the same pain of being cheated on! Or not knowing!

Im looking for a long time friend and I need help find him.I only know his name and I really don't know much about. His name is Marlon Newson. The reason Im looking for him he could be my baby father. There's more to the story but I would rather talk about it to u, so can u please help me.
Thank You,
Nexianer

Im looking for a long time friendand I need help find him.I only know his name and I really don't know much about. His name is Marlon Newson. The reason Im looking for him he could be my baby father. If u can please help me find this man. There's more to the story but I would rather talk about it to u, so can u please help me.
Thank You,
Nexianer

Tyra, you are #1 in the Priority List on my DVR. I watched your show today entitled "Is Your Man Cheating" and I still can't believe what Private Eye and Infidelity.com Founder Tony DeLorenzo said. I beleive it goes something like this,"If I were him [cheating male guest], I would not have brought up the cheating from a year ago.. All that does is create pain." If that is true, that means that any man can cheat and wait long enough so that it is "not an issue". The woman of cheating men need to know when they cheat (even if these men brought it up years later) so that the women can make an informed decision.
This show came on the same morning that I found out that my man of 9 months cheated on me. He left his cellphone in my car one day and just before I was about to return it to him, I snooped and saw several text message he sent to a girl about what he has done and what he wants to do to her.

IF NAJA SINGLE AND LOOKING FOR ANOTHER MAN EMAIL ME OR WRITE B. KNIGHT
P.O. BOX 5636
MACON, GA. 31217

Hi Tyra! I really enjoyed your show today. I watch your show regularly and I've been waiting for you to talk about cheating.
I have this boyfriend. We've been together for 2 1/2 years, we have a baby together, we live together, and we're like practically married in everyone eyes. However, lately things have been changing between us. When we first started dating, I found out that he was cheating on me with a girl he met through one of our mutual friends. And it went on for months even after I had found out but he denied it and kept it going with that girl behind my back. Well we worked things out and he stopped talking to that girl. However, I was snooping through his e-mails and had seen that he had re-added her and begun talking to her again. Should I be worried? And he's been going out more often now. And I know he lies to me about where he is and what's he's doing. I'm at a loss. I have no clue what I should do anymore.
And you had also mentioned that if he goes out of the room to talk on the phone on the quiz. My boyfriend always does that, no matter who he's talking to. Does that mean he's cheating?

Hey Tyra!!! I love your show gurl! Where was this episode last year? Because I could have broken up with my ex before he dumped me for another girl lol. My ex of almost 2yrs, cheated on me twice which was not that obvious until after I found out. He used the line saying he wanted a break or needed his space to figure some things out (I let him, although he didnt want me to date other guys, he was messing with other girls) when in reality it was so we "technically" were not together, he never let me look through his phone or wouldnt answer it when I was around, he did not want to be intimate with me anymore, and another sign (which was not listed)that should have been a dead give away was him wanting me to change my look (he wanted me to gain weight to be "thick"). The first girl he cheated on me with he said he only messed with her because she had a**. Me having low self esteem, some how I gave him another chance. But the second time when he ended it with me it was for the same reason. Crazy I know but thanks for making this show. I think it will make women and possibly men more aware of their significant others on if their cheating on them.

Hiya Tyra! I love love love your show. I am a married women and I have caught men cheating on me before! so glad you did a show like this there are so many women who need to wake up and check that man of theirs... Luckily my husband is on the right path for now, but im watching for all the signs!! keep it going Tyra you are the best... lotsa luv to from the south!

I think that men cheat more than women god knows why but ladies pick up yourselves and move on

i LOVE THAT YOU DiD THiS EPiSODE TYRA YOU DONT EVEN KNOW ... BECAUSE i THiNK WOMAN HAVE AN iNTUiTiON THEY JUST KNOW WHEN THERE MAN iS CHEATiNG OR BEiNG DiSTANT iN GENRAL... FOR THE LONGEST TiME i HAD THE MOST HORRiABLE FEELiNG THAT MY EX HUSBAND AND MY TWiN SiSTER HAD DONE SOMETHiNG iN MY HOUSE WHEN SHE CAME TO GERMANY TO SEE ME BUT i NEVER HAD ANY PROOF JUST A PAiNFUL GUT FEELiNG WELL AFTER THE DiVORCE i GOT E-MAiLS SENT TO ME FROM HiM THAT MY SiSTER HAD WROTE TO HiM ABOUT THE WHOLE THiNG AND i SWEAR i FELT MY HEART BREAK YOU CAN ONLY iMAGiN HOW THiNGS PLAYED OUT WiTH MY SiSTER WHEN i CONFRONTED HER AND i DONT KNOW iF i WiLL EVER BE ABLE TO HAVE A RELATiONSHiP WiTH HER AGAiN EVEN THOUGH i KNOW LONGER WiTH HiM .. THiS SHOW REALLY HELPED ME BE MORE CLEAR ABOUT HOW i AM FEELiNG AND HOW WHAT HAPPEND TO ME WAS NOT MY FAULT SO THANK YOU .

Duane...I as a woman can honestly tell you that I have never cheated on my boyfriend. I have never even came close. I don't think there will be a show where men can so called redeem themselves when men are the one who always cheat!

After watching this episode of your show. I was quite upset that your staff went against satistics, and questioned/attacked men on their faithfulness in a relationship, and not women, who are more prong to cheating than men.
I am sure that there will be another show in which, mwn will have the chance to redeem themselves.