Five men answered about love, sex, cheating, how they really feel about our bodies, and how they really view women who give it up on the first date! Jeff and Jared answer more of your questions that didn’t make it into the show.

What do men think about women with kids? Would that be a reason for them not to date someone they would be really interested in?

Jared Says: That depends...I think that there would be challenges with any child, and that guys would prefer to date a woman that doesn’t already have children. Perhaps, as a man gets older, he would be more likely to date a woman with children, but it depends on how young the child is. If they are in their teens, there could be struggles getting the kid to accept a new male presence in the home if it became serious. Also, in the early stages of a relationship, it can be challenging to determine how much time needs to be devoted to the child if they were very young. More time with baby means less time developing a new romantic interest. But if the guy really is interested, or even loves the woman, I would imagine there would be a concerted effort to work around these issues. As for me...no thanks. I would want any kid to be my own, and I think that probably goes for most guys.

Jeff Says: I think it depends mostly on the woman. If you're attracted to the woman, there's obviously a reason. And, having a child or two should be irrelevant to that. I think as a younger guy, dating a woman with a child is a little bit of a turnoff because it means we have to grow up faster and be responsible for something we're not used to being responsible for. But, I would date a woman with a kid, absolutely...if I think she's the right one for me. Now, if she has like five kids and is 22 years old, then maybe that says something about her personality and lifestyle that would turn me off.

What do guys really think about stretch marks and cellulite?

Jared Says: These are not among most attractive features a woman could have, but alas, they are a fact of life. I will tell you for certain that a guy would prefer a girl without them over a girl with them. But - different strokes for different folks. Women who have children get these and even some who don't. Don’t worry somebody is gonna love you, regardless of these imperfections. Like the daddy! As for me...thanks, but I'll pass.

Jeff Says: Well, here's the thing. We're all going to get these things. All of us. I think in the initial attraction between two people these things can be a factor. However, as a relationship progresses and you've been with a woman for a while that develops cellulite or gets stretch marks from childbearing, that's really not a big deal at all. Loving someone includes loving their imperfections. None of us are physically perfect, but the more time you spend with someone, the more attractive they become. We're all going to get old and our looks will fade. The ones that try and stop this process end up looking worse than the ones that just accept it.

If you get along really well with my best female friend, is it because you secretly fantasize about her?

Jared Says: Could cross our minds if she was hotter than you. A guy should probably not be left alone with a hot friend if you don’t want trouble brewing. Why do you want to open Pandora's box of temptations? I got along really well with one of my girlfriend’s friends. She was kinda cute, not at all my type, but we had a lot in common and she was nice to talk to about certain things like our adoptions as infants. But, fantasize about her? No. If she were hotter than my girl friend, then yeah. That happened to me once too, but I never acted on it or said anything nice about her until I broke up with my girlfriend. Then 6 months later I got with that chick!

Jeff Says: Are you joking? Absolutely not!! We're usually getting along with your best female friend because we want to make YOU happy! That's the reason. However, if there are obvious signs that the guy is potentially cheating on you, then I'd say pay attention to their relationship, but don't overanalyze. I grew up with three sisters and went to a school that was nearly 70% female. All of my friends are girls. I just feel more comfortable around women. I get along great with my girlfriend's friends. But, I definitely don't fantasize about them. You see, guys are really not that complicated. We're very cut and dry. If we want to be with you, then we'll be with you. If not, then we'll try for your friend. It really is that simple.

Even if you're straight....do guys ever have fantasies involving other men (like girls sometimes imagine kissing other girls)?

Jared Says: Easy - No freakin’ way!!!

Jeff Says: No. This may vary depending on the guy, I'm not entirely sure on this one, but I really have no curiosity about kissing a guy. There's nothing about another guy that I find attractive in any way, shape, or form.

If he's friends with an ex, does that mean he still hopes they'll get back together?

Jared Says: Not always. It depends on a few things like how long ago they were together, how it ended, and how he feels about you. If the breakup was recent, chances are things have not settled and somebody wants to be back with someone. But if it were a few years ago, chances are that they really are just friends and you should not worry so much! You are the new hottie. Right?!! Right?!! You could be a rebound though...

I do have friends that I used to be with, but I don’t always feel the need to tell the new person I am dating that she’s an ex. Some things are just better left unsaid.

Jeff Says: Not necessarily, no. I'm still friends with most of my exes, but I honestly have no desire to get back together with them whatsoever. If he's friends with an ex, that probably shows a certain level of maturity to his character that he can handle awkward and difficult situations with grace and integrity. If it's a recent ex, however, then I'd be a little cautious. Guys are known to want to keep their options open. And we all have those back and forth feelings. "Oh, I want her." "Oh, no I don't." "Yes I do." "No I don't." "It would just be so easy, we already know each other." "Would I really be happy?" This lasts for a few months after a serious relationship. But, once you find the right girl, all that goes away.

Why do men seem to have a problem remembering what a woman wants/likes/needs sexually? Must they be reminded every single time we're intimate with them where/what/how to touch?

Jared Says: Who has that problem? They can pick up my instructional videos at any local retailer! Wow, I am sorry for whoever it was that had to ask that question! Some things come natural for some guys and some things don't I guess. Never had that problem...EVER!

Jeff Says: Sounds like you've been seeing the wrong men! I don't quite understand how a guy can't figure out what his girl wants after they've done it more than two or three times. Yes, it takes a while to figure out the great spots and the not-so-great spots, but this sounds like a problem with the guy. As long as you're communicating what feels good, then he should be able to figure it out. Are you sure you're honestly communicating to him what you want? Us guys are dense, we kind of need to be hit over the head with what you want. We're not good at picking up signals and little signs you may or may not be sending. But, if you are being open about what feels good, then maybe you need to look into getting this guy a little bit of education and help. Or just dump him.