I took your relationship quiz and I don't understand the results. I am married to my soul-mate. He is the love of my life. We have been married for 6 and 1/2 years and if we both had it to do over again we both would marry each other again. How can the quiz say that I should consider that we have a problem? He tells me all the time that he found his soul when he found me and I feel the same way. We have the perfect marriage. We both feel that we should write a book on how to have a great marriage.

hi my name is laura and my boyfriend is nery ive been with him for 14 months ever since i was 9 months pregnant when we first got together i thought and he thought we were just gonna be together as a one night stand well ever since the day we slept together and he broke my water weve been together anyways to make a long story short he cheated on me a month after we started dating well he says he didnt sleep with the girl he told me he just got her number well i talked to the girl the girl told me he told her he had no girlfriend and she told me they did not sleep together she just kissed him at the job sight well he gave me her number like 2 weeks before i called her and told me she was bothering him but it came out as he was talking to her well he just recently got a high cell phone bill and it said that a girl that hed been talking to on the computer her number was on the bill at like 3 4 and 5 in the morning the time that he leaves for work and also in the evenings after work she never called when he came home from work only while he was out to work we are together 24/7 only when he goes to work and trusting is a issue and jealousy please help i would love to give him a lie detector test but cant afford it please help i love him and i also have a 3 year old

Concerning you show which aired on Thursday, Nov. 30th--about the couple with the three step-kids and the husband with the anger who punches walls. I think you treated the husband unfairly--and only showed video excerpts of his reactions to things--but you never showed what let up to his anger in the first place. This doesn't justify the anger--but it may explain it--that both people have to change--and not just him. I agree that part of his anger toward his girlfriend is because he has anger towards him mom who didn't get custody of him. But what I don't think you see, is you that you see this angry males as the boys who bullied you when you were a kid--and this prejudices you without your conscious awareness. Think about it. I say this with the best of helpful intentions. You are just a person, as you say on your show--and you may fall prey at times to the same projection scenerios as do your guests. And when it comes to angry men--I truly believe you see them thru the "filter" of your childhood bullying abuse; or in your terms, they are part of your ongoing story in ways they have no control over.

Be well & happy,
Barrie

I was really touched by the show today- the first couple was almost like seeing our relationship. when its good its good and when its bad its awful!! his temper gets the best of him and becomes a trigger for me- i can't do it anymore either!!

i am a 25 yr old female with a little girl.. me and my partner have been together since we were 18.. my partner has a really bad anger problem.. when he flares up he'll throw stuff around the house, curse at me and brake things.. he's been doing this on and off since we started.. but for some reason every time he apologizes i take him back.. he just did it like 2 weeks ago.. infront of my little girl.. she saw everything.. even my dog is afraid of him.. ive left him twice, and im actually thinking of doing it again, but for some reason my feet wont move.. please help me understand this..