I was 19 when i gave my virginity to the love of my life. My whole life i was waiting for that certain someone. I have been offered and i have had lots of relationships growing up but i never had the certain feeling you should have when you know its the right person. Then i met my husband james. He wasnt my husband at the time he was my bf but i knew and i had this overwhelming feeling he was the one. And i didnt pass it up. Now im 20 married and have a beutiful baby girl and im happy. James and i have this certain connection because of the fact i saved my self and i wouldnt change a thing. I love my choice in saving my self for the love of my life!!!

Im 14 years old and im very very scared to have sex. Im waiting for the right person to pass my way. And i really want to try it but after all the stories i am hearing it seems that it is hard but i can wait. i am picking a age and i am sticking to that age and if i dont fill like doing that at that time then i will just have to wait. When i do it i will be VERY scared to tell my mom but life is life so ill have to tell her because my mom is a special person and she can keep a secret.

I think it is great that they are waiting for the right one.So,keep doing what you are doing,because it is very dangerious to have sex these days.And the devil can't use it against you.Save it for Marriage!!!

I liked the show. It helped me to realize I'm not alone. I, like DeMarcus, have had a vision of the woman I will marry. I'm trying (with some difficulty) to wait for her. I'm 26 and still a virgin. Honestly I've never even had so much as a passionate kiss. I've seen this woman in my mind since I was 2 years old. My family even knows about it and has told me stories about how I would talk about her. When I see a woman, I dont see "attractive" or "unattractive" in as much as I see whether or not they match the image in my mind.. If you do a lineup of the women I've been drawn to over the years, its uncanny, as they look like they could be related. I know what she looks like, what she sounds like, I know her heart and her mind. I know without a doubt, in spite of how it sounds, that I am waiting for a real woman. I just have to be vigilant. I will find my raven haired beauty, and she will be my universe.

The next question should be, where has sex led us to? It has let to more baby mama/daddy drama. It is time to get real and know that sex is not a true sign of love or chemistry.

I just turned 43 on Nov. 10th and I am still a virgin: haven't even held hands with a guy. I guess if I was as pretty, thin and outgoing (and young!) as Sarah, it might not bother me as much as it sometimes does. But for better or worse, this is who I am, and so I choose to celebrate my uniqueness. While I may sometimes be disappointed in the way things have turned out, I refuse to wallow in self-pity and regret for what might have been. I am extremely blessed with a good life, loving family and wonderful friends. Believe it or not, there are far worse things out there than remaining a virgin one's entire life. At least, that's one virgin's opinion. :-)

This show was 1 hour of fluff. Keith, one week you have teen girls crying and being upset because they had sex and now you have a show making sex look like it is a varsity event? This gal Sarah just wanted a place to show case her stand up comedy. The male model who is saving himself for his future bride is the only one who really gets any merit points from me. This "secondary virgin" stuff is a bunch of hooey. Either you are a virgin by choice or by chance, having sex in the past and going through a period of abstinence does not make you a virgin again. Stick with the serious issues that really matter, this show was a waste of my time.

OK, I'm a 28 year old virgin. Is it the right decision for me to wait? That's a tough one. Right now it's more of a habit that's tough for me to break than a conscious decision to remain "chaste". It's an internal issue that hangs in the air when I consider pursuing relationships. I can argue that we're living in complex times, with a myriad of STDs. But then I know myself enough to know that I'm not about to just pick some random guy just fo the sake of having sex. I have intimacy issues. That's a given. Losing my virginity will happen when it's supposed to. Waiting was right for me when I wasn't ready or equipped to deal with the consequences. Now that I am, If it happens, it happens, If it doesn't, It's not an issue that rules my life.

I just wanted to say I'm watching the show and I think DeMarcus is absoluely adorable! He is the model that's a virgin I would love to meet him!

My name is Brittney and I am a full time college student. Sex is an interesting topic to bring up, especially when talking about college students. For most of us, we had never lived on our own before attending college and being throw into an environment with thousands of others with different backgrounds and lifestyles can be quite a culture shock. I've been attening college now for 3 years and I have found that sex is something that can be heard as the topic of any one conversation on a daily basis. Who had sex with whom and how often, how they were and whether they'd do it again. I, myself, have a different outlook on it. Don't get me wrong sex is great, but I dont believe in sex with just anyone, and I certainly dont believe in it with everyone. I think it takes a level of security about yourself to have sex with someone, and if you just have sex with anyone, you're slowly chipping away at your own self esteem. I have had one boyfriend who attended this college with me since I've been here and he is the only person I've been intimate with. It's just a very different world once people enter into college. They see things that they might not be used to seeing, and are easily persuaded to follow those before them. I just see it differently than most, and watching your show made me realize that its hard for a girl to keep her self esteem high while she attends college. It's all about sex, whether we like or not, and its all in how you deal with it.

Sincerely,
Brittney