"Feuding Families Share Thanksgiving”

For many people, the holidays mean that another year has past filled with anger, bitterness and frustration between family members. But Thanksgiving doesn’t have to be a time when we pretend our families are perfect, and then privately nurse old, hurt feelings. Honest communication at family gatherings can bring families closer together. So reach out and talk to your loved ones more often because creating an open dialogue is the first step toward healing.






Comments
The baby steps of progress demonstrated on this show with Larry and Michael are heartwarming. Am I too gullible to think TV psychiatry works? Isn't it also a key truth that Larry's daughters (and Michael) will need to rid themself of anger and dependence to make themself whole from inside out?
My problem? I want to sit in your audience every day, but work and am thousands of miles away.
Posted by: Trudy | November 25, 2006 10:09 AM
on your show today you talked about familys fighting on holidays ...well i have 7 brothers and sisters 8 kids all toghter..2 boys and 6 girls my mom had ..and you talk about fighting ..well we can fight on holidays and not on holidays..ats fighting all the time..my dad died when i was 9 years old and mom had to take care of all of us ..she did real good with us kids ..its us kids we fight like cats and dogs...iam the 6th kid it the family and the fighter of all ...my name is bobbie sue and i am a girl..well the tomboy in the family...anyways you said to write you and let you know if we are a family that fights on holidays...well we are ..thank you for giving a min to me ...thanks alot bobbie sue im in hanford ca.please write me back and tell me what you think please ....thank you and have a good day....bobbie sue
Posted by: bobbie | November 22, 2006 02:54 PM
The dad reminded me so much of how my mother is, only he is trying to have a relationship with his kids. My mom doesn't even want to try & denies she has ever done anything wrong.
Posted by: LeAnn | November 22, 2006 09:44 AM
I feel that it's such a shame that these (grown) women are allowing their father's lack of love and understanding hinder their enjoyment in life. My father was an alcoholic Tyrant and doesn't remember my childhood due to blackouts but that doesn't disable my enjoyment in my current life. Get over it...not everyone had a rosie childhood. These women have families of their own now and need to concentrate on loving them...instead of hanging onto this junk from the past. You can't change other people's bad behavior.
Posted by: Jennifer | November 22, 2006 09:11 AM
Dr. Keith,
My name is Tanya and I can relate to this story and I belive people can change and it is good for everyone to to be together on the hoilidays. But what if some ones lies and deception has tore your familt apart so much that there is no saving this relationship? I haven't talked to my sister in about 6 months because of her last series of lies and I can't bring my self to for give her because she brought my son into it and I can't let her hurt him like she has everyone else in our family.
I just want to tell that family, If there is a chance to fix it, please take it and try and things will get better. Thank you for reading.
Tanya Wheeler
Posted by: tanya wheeler | November 22, 2006 07:06 AM